But then again its not like money comes out of nowhere. Its not a lottery for who gets more money/gear and most damage. And if it was meant to be fair why is the boss so strong.
Sorry, I'm not seeing any pictures of any of the items you lost, perhaps if they are not too hard for me to obtain I can replace them for you for free if you still haven't gotten them back.
If all else fails, a good old fire is sure to take care of them. However there may be other drawbacks..
Like I don't know.... burning down your house...
So not recommended, unless they're planning a revolt and deciding to wipe out the human race