The Problem with griefing is theres so much confused players who dont know whta it means exactly, I think it should be counted as griefing if lets say the plot isnt replaced in 7-14 days. They can tear it sure but it needs to be replaced. So lets say Day 1 you make the request for transfer and tear the house. Day 2 its rejected, Day 3 you could either try again or ask an arch. Day 5-7 get it transferred. Or if you only can play on weekends or only acailable on weekends (like me). Day 1 tear the build and make a request. Day 2 gets denied. Day 5-6 you ask a arch to build something on it. Day 7-13 get it transferred, possibly ask the arch to transfer it if you cant since you arent online. These are just some solutions but just for an example, irl when you buy a home you can take the furniture and make a new blueprint for a new house on it. Since the materials are technically your property you should be allowed to take it. So the materials used for the build should be allowed to be taken.